Why Alexander Graham Bell Said Hello!

Halo!

A few days back, I made a call to a friend. Asked her out for a late supper. She must have been surprised by the call, judging from her “Hello?”. Hearing her voice was also somewhat of a chirpy surprise for me, considering that the call was perhaps the first in a long while. Reason being that we had always maintained our communication  via Whatsapp.

The thing that surprised me though was the quality of the conversation. While it was probably  the shortest conversation by a long shot, lasting slightly more than 3 minutes, it was memorable.

The thing about hearing someone’s voice at the end of the other line, is that you can listen in to a host of emotional responses. The tonality, pitch and volume of someone’s voice can indicate their level of excitement or despair, when speaking to you.

I guess this is the part about being authentic, that most people have almost forgotten.

People these days are more comfortable having conversations via text messages or social media. What this does is that it impedes the person’s natural conversational skills.

Have you ever asked yourself just why is it, that when you hear stories about a person’s last moments before death or disasters, they will always try to reach out to their loved one’s via a phone call?

It is crucial for you to understand, that while we are being bombarded with a host of social media applications for ease of communication, it should not take away the significance of a simple phone call.

If you are like most people, you probably have more than 10 personal or group conversations on your mobile devices. What it does is that these conversations tend to create a clutter of meaningless chatter. You have people discussing trivial matters over hours just because it is an easy conversation to partake in.

The key takeaway here is to understand the power of your voice. One important aspect of authenticity, is the ability to communicate your thoughts with your voice.If you want to add a dash of personal power, pick up your phone and make that call. You’ll get your points across faster.

 

 

The 3 Attributes You Should Love About Authentic People

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Remember the guy or girl who seemed to say yes to everything? Yups, neither do I. These figures are probably forgettable in your life, for the fact that nothing interesting or engaging will be revolving around their own lives. They are the perennial followers. Always awaiting for the opportunity to suck up to somebody influential, or to just be part of  the pack.

Are you like that? If you are, stop being one. If you are not, stop someone from being one.

It’s hard to find authentic people these days. So what does an authentic person looks or acts like?

Speaks Their Mind

You want honest people on your team. The more brutally honest they are, the better. Keep a look out for people who genuinely care about you and your affairs, and will not shy away from telling you exactly what you need to know. Not what you want to hear. Authentic individuals speak their mind, in a way that is not overwhelmingly critical. They will share their thoughts, constructively, without the need to whitewash details. Authentic people express. They are not that bothered about wanting to impress.

Credibility Via Experience

The thing that you are trying to do, is what authentic people should have done. Why are authentic people important? Because they are the action takers. The walkers. Not the talkers. If they speak their mind, it is only because the know more than half the stuffs about what they are saying. Authentic people are people who have climbed that mountain, fell flat on their faces, stood up and climbed again. You want to get ahead fast in life? Leverage on authentic people. They are credible.

Opinions Of A Sheep Do Not Bother The Wolf

People crave for validations and feedback. That is why you have the “Like” button on Facebook. But here’s the problem. You tend to be trying too hard to be liked. Such that you will probably try to stay on the safe zone of things, most of the time. You will not want to criticize or give an opinion that is contrarian to the crowd. Cause you fear the opinions of the ‘sheep-les” will be less favorable for you. Fortunately, authentic people cannot be bothered with opinions of people that do not matter or add value to his/her cause. They are not contrarians without reasons. They have too much self belief and conviction in their own opinions. It gives authentic people the room to be emotionally detached to perspectives. Twenty sheep will never intimidate one hungry wolf.